My boyfriends’ ‘Goth’ and I’m considered ‘Prep’, help?
I need some advice for anyone out there that’s dated outside of there "circut". I’ve been with Gabriel for about 10 months now and he’s very hardcore goth, supporting the makeup, outfit, music, attitude everything. While I wear the sterotypical "Prep" wear, slacks, khakis, sweater vests, pink fliry dresses, girly skirts the works. Your probably thinking "How did this pair happen?" It’s very simple, I don’t care about what label you are, the same with him, we love each other very much and that’s all that matters, plus I like almost everything, I’m eclectic, I love him for him not his ’style’ and vice versa, we also have a lot in common. So any advice to keep his and my disapproving friends from spliting us up? He’s the greatest thing that’s happened in my life I don’t wanna lose him because our very different ‘parties’ disagree.
Wow, Dean did you even read my question? Obviously not since I’ve been dating him for 10 months idiot. Why not read and understand the question before you judge.
Tagged with: 10 months • attitude • dean • dresses • makeup • music • slacks • sterotypical • sweater vests
Filed under: Goth Dating
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If you truly love eachother and want to be together, friends won’t be able to touch that.
I’m not sure,
you shouldn’t care what others think.
Throughout high school I avoided stereotypes basically because I was friends with all different types of people
If your friends are not able to look past the clothing and see how much you like him maybe they aren’t your real friends.
If you really loved eachother you’d break away from both your circles for eachothers sake.But if you dont better to split
You two won’t last more than 2 months. Just judging from your immaturity.
GOOD FOR YOU BOTH.well love can be great,ten months on and they still have not got the message,what is wrong with both lots of friends,why don’t they leave you alone.THEY MUST BE JEALOUS.it is a shame when people cant leave others alone.they know by now that you are both serious if not you must tell them.you should say please leave me and my boyfriend alone,we are happy if we were not we would not be together the length of time we have.also why not if it feels right you could get engaged that is a real statement of your love for each other.then they might realise this and leave you both alone.but you must say what you need to say as well and so must he.say your not going to argue about it that is the way it is,so be my friend and please get used to the idea FOR ME.GOOD LUCK,i hope things work out.you need your friends and your boyfriend too and so does he need his friends and you.
If your friends are trying to split you up because you 2 are not into the same style, then they are not your friends. Simple as that. If they were they would see that you are happy with your choise. The same goes for his friends.
Im a rockabilly, punk thing (lol, I dont really know which one I fit in more) but so far I’v only been with metal guys. I dont really listen to metal. i couldn’t name any good bands off of what I have listened too. but what ever. It doesnt matter. I dont think about what music or style we’re into when we are together. Im sure you done either.