I’m just curious to know how your parents or guardians, reacted when you came home with an unusual tattoo or piercing or you decided to become a goth/emo/scene. You became bored with your old hairstyle and went to have a really funky mohawk or haircut at your local hairdresser or dyed you hair an unique colour.

I know this is quite complicated. Hopefully you don’t get confused. I’m 22 yr old man who is in a relationship with a 21 year old woman. This woman has a son who is 14 months old. I have known the woman on and off for about 3 years. Here’s a little backstory – We actually 1st met each other at the beginning from a goth date site but we lost contact (thanks to one of her friends and she was dating someone at the time.) Then about a year or so later we found each other again. We started talking and after about a few months we met at the mall. It was at the time that i discovered that during the time we were apart she had apparently found someone who she worked with that she liked and had dated them and had a kid together, that had just been born right before we started talking again. She was still with the father and still lived with him. I didn’t mind this, and also the fact she has a wonderful personality and have so much in common, lead me to want to be with her (at a time when I was actually dating someone else)

So we snuck around to see each other and I went to her job (she’s a dancer) to see her. The girl i was with found out and got upset, understandably so, and made me stop talkin to her and to change my number. I changed my number and . gave it to the girl so we could keep talking. So this went on for about another month. This girl was goin to the beach and invited me to go with her. I was planning to go and it was close the day we were goin to leave and my gf at the time found out and got highly upset. I didn’t want to lose her so i promised I wouldn’t talk to her anymore and called her up and told her good goodbye.

Well, 8 months went by and… she found me through myspace. We talked for a few days and decided to meet at a local club. We went and it was slightly ackward at first but then as the night went by it was back to where we left off. I also found out something. She had gotten a tattoo the day we stopped talking, and she had done it for me. For ME!! Well she was still living with the guy and the kid is now about 14 months old. We’ve been sneaking around and seeing each other since the 22 November. This past saturday we went to a few clubs and then we left early and went to my house. That was our first. It was beautiful and amazing. I took her home. Today I went to her house while the guy was at work. We hung out, played with the kid and got a tour of her place. We were playing on the computer..and you know what happened next.

I really love her and she means so much to me. She’s changed my views and opened my eyes to a lot of things. i know she feels the same way I. She really cares for me and loves me very much. She even told me that she hopes that someday we can truely be together as a family as husband and wife. I just want someone elses view points on what’s going on and what I should do.

By the way, I’m single now. My girlfriend at the time broke up with a little after me and that girl stopped talking to be with a guy 10 years older than her.

I dated this one guy that was a Goth and he had a tattoo on his arm of an Egyptian symbol, the circle/cross looking thing. He wanted to go to Egypt and was really into Egyptian culture, does it have to do with their obsession with death? What is it? Anyone who can help, thanks!

I'm not sure all I know is that I saw the picture on tv and they said it was by a certain artist and I really would like a tattoo of it.